Sunday, June 12, 2011
12:50 PM |
I recently posed this question to some of my kinkier lady friends, "Why do you enjoy spankings as part of your foreplay?" I got many answers from them, but this answer seemed to sum up all of what these ladies were telling me...
"why i like spankings... well they turn me on, for me the pain is pleasure, it is a type of foreplay... i really like the whole ritual of spankings, for me it is very erotic very much the start of the turn on... it brings blood rushing to the surface leaving my skin more sensitive and responsive to other touches... it is the release of endorphins that eventually leave a calming and relaxed feeling... yes spanking hurt a lot but it seems the more i get, the more i want...it is also about the feelings, naughty girls get spanked... it is a mixture of being ashamed about having my bottom spanked and guilt if i actual did something bad; then the feeling of submission for knowing that even though at that moment i want relief of it stopping it isn't my choice how many swats i get or what tool/toy is being used... then when it is over there is generally the gentle caresses and soothing effect of having my hot bottom rubbed (or feeling of forgiveness if bad)... sometimes i cry with them which allows for a whole different release of stresses and emotions needing to be released a type of cleansing... so with the mixture of all the feeling and the endorphins leave me with a very comforting high..."
I went further and researched online by googling "why women like spankings?" Hundreds of spanking sites came up all explaining part of what my friend told me... From reviewing many of the sites, I have come to the conclusion that simply put, erotic spankings are great foreplay and can really set the mood for role play or for fetish. As much as it is physical stimulation, it provides mental stimulation and can be the basis or the start of a very hot and erotic playtime.... I will review more sites and interviews and update this story soon.
I wave been in or around the adult entertainment industry for over 20 years... Working with exotic dancers, fetish and fetish clubs and consumer trade shows. I have been avoiding working directly with content, production and distribution, but it seems the harder I ry to stay away, they more I find myself involved.
Recently I joined with a small production group here in Calgary, AB. With this group I have decided to become fully involved in the Adult Entertainment industry. My first project was to assist in implementing an e-commerce solution. The result was the creation of a content management company which provides content development, management, marketing and online e-commerce. The first e-commerce site is www.xxxmall.ca, an online adult content mall allowing independent producers to sell their content without having to set up e-commerce for themselves. In addition the company will provide content evaluation, development and management services to the independent producers. We are now 6 weeks into the project and the site is nearing completion. I hope to have the site launched by the end of June 2011. I do hope you will visit the site and watch as this project develops.
The test site is www.xxxdarkmall.com/store - I will be posting updates and insights as the project and others develop. I hope to share the experience with you as I go through the process of developing and running an adult website.
Recently I joined with a small production group here in Calgary, AB. With this group I have decided to become fully involved in the Adult Entertainment industry. My first project was to assist in implementing an e-commerce solution. The result was the creation of a content management company which provides content development, management, marketing and online e-commerce. The first e-commerce site is www.xxxmall.ca, an online adult content mall allowing independent producers to sell their content without having to set up e-commerce for themselves. In addition the company will provide content evaluation, development and management services to the independent producers. We are now 6 weeks into the project and the site is nearing completion. I hope to have the site launched by the end of June 2011. I do hope you will visit the site and watch as this project develops.
The test site is www.xxxdarkmall.com/store - I will be posting updates and insights as the project and others develop. I hope to share the experience with you as I go through the process of developing and running an adult website.
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