"He/She who Hesitates..."

Here is a new old saying for all of you single people out there who say, "I can never meet anyone". The saying goes, "he/she who hesitates, masturbates..."

First, if you can't admit that you have and do masturbate, you are not being honest with yourself . Really, that is the first step to not being alone, to be honest with yourself! You may not find "Mr/ Ms Right" - but "Mr./Ms Let us have some freaky fun now" is good too? No? I think yes!

So what does it mean? I think you are already getting the meaning - if you don't ask you will never know. Let me illustrate. How many times have you been out and about and you see someone who catches your interest. Then suddenly, you find that person next to you  and possibly even bumping in to you or awkwardly reaching for the same thing you are. At that moment of contact, when everything could have come together, you stop, you hesitate, you freeze instead of saying something like "hello". Then the rest of the day, you are left wondering and that night, left only to fantasize.

For me, I would have gone a little further and said, "I saw you across the room and now you're here, what is your name?" I realize that may not work for many of you but at least say hi and start a conversation, you never know what it could lead to. 'Cause, if you do not, you can only look forward to your own warm touch and solo experience.